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SAFE HOUSE • Juab County Attorney, Jared Eldridge, and Annette Lovell, county victim's advocate, attended Nephi City Council to request the city not charge the center for utilities as the city's contribution to a safe house for abuse victims

By Myrna Trauntvein
Times-News Correspondent

A much needed safe house for victims of domestic abuse is being established in Nephi.

Juab County Attorney, Jared Eldridge, and Annette Lovell, county victim's advocate, attended Nephi City Council to request the city not charge the center for utilities as the city's contribution to the program.

City council members agreed the plan to develop a safe house in the community was a good one and were willing to offer support.

Mayor Chad Brough, however, said he thought it would be wise not to waive the utility charges.

"I would not want to set a precedence by waiving the utility bills," said Brough. "Instead, I would prefer that the city make a monetary donation for you to use at your discretion."

Eldridge said he had asked Lovell to take on the job of working as a victim's advocate representing the county attorney's office. Amy Taylor was selected as a victim's advocate from the county sheriff's office.

In the past, said Eldridge, when a victim of abuse was removed from the home for safety reasons, they were, including children, taken to the county jail. The jail, while a good place for those arrested, was not really the best place for victims.

The county obtained some grant money to begin the victim's advocacy program. That grant money has been used mostly for salaries.

Lovell and Taylor had been called out for people who needed an advocate in 26 cases, to date.

"I carry a kit in my car which has information a protective order and a stalking packet in my car at all times," said Lovell.

When she and Taylor are contacted, they respond immediately and provide the advocacy which the victim might need.

Eldridge said the Jan. 7 slaying of Ogden architect Brett Richards had a profound effect on his brother, Reed Richards, a former chief deputy in the Utah Attorney General's Office, who also was on the same tour of Guatemala.

In addition, the relating of that experience by Richards had a profound effect on Eldridge.

"Reed Richards said he had worked in the court system with victims but had never understood the trauma a victim goes through," said Eldridge.

Richards had suffered after seeing his brother murdered and had reacted with mental confusion.

"That is from a man who is well-seasoned in dealing with victims of crime and abuse," he said.

Victims of abuse often stay in the bad relationship because they have no where else to go, One reason a safe house is needed is because women are often intimidated by the abuser and are afraid. At times, their lives are in danger. Sometimes they are injured and need medical help.

The same is true of children who are afraid and worried as well as, at times, physically injured.

Lovell said there was one recent case in the community where three little children had to be removed from their home. They were taken to the jail.

"They were already traumatized and they did not have a warm and cozy feeling at the jail," she said. She and Taylor did their best to make those children comfortable and to reassure them but a home is a better place to accomplish that task.

The victim's advocacy program is non-profit and is under the umbrella of the Women In Crisis Center. The fee for the home's use will come from that source.

The safe home would have, in addition to shelter, hygiene kits, blankets, and other supplies for those in need including a place to fix a meal.

There had been a lot of community support for the advocacy program, said Lovell. For example, she contacted local motels about the need to set up some emergency kits for victims who are taken from their home without even a toothbrush. Within hours, local motels had donated little soaps, small tubes of toothpaste, toothbrushes and other supplies.

The organization is obtaining use of the Cowan home which is located just east of Kimo's Kamera on Main Street.

The home will also have an interview room where those who have been abused may talk about what has happened and where their options can be explained.

"This is a safe house," said Lovell. "Victims will typically stay at the facility for only a few hours, two to three, and if further time or protection is needed they will be transferred to shelters in Provo or Richfield."

Following the shelter, with money from the crime victim reparation fund, victims can even been relocated.

"We just need a place to keep them safe for a few hours," she said. "The local safe home will provide that service."

Eldridge said the facility may be needed as a safe home two to three times in a week and then may not be used for a month.

"We will set up an office for Amy Taylor and Annette Lovell there," he said.

There may be a contract with a psychologist who would provide counseling for victims who would also have office space at the home.

Lovell said materials for the program will be stored at the safe house.

Eldridge said that domestic violence occurs among all age groups, genders, races, educational backgrounds, denominations, and socioeconomic groups.

According to a Domestic Violence Incidence and Prevalence Study performed by Dan Jones & Associates, Inc., April-May 1997, one in five women in Utah relate that their children witness or hear verbal abuse, while one in fourteen report their children witness or hear physical abuse.

"I wish I could tell you that this will happen less and less but I am afraid it will happen more and more," said Lovell.